To discuss, with as much or as little anonymity as you choose:
What is your gender?
An essay on that topic was assigned someone I know as homework. You don't have to write an essay, but I'm interested in your answer.
I have had several answers to that question that I could explain briefly or at length, but right now, I don't have one. That doesn't mean I don't have a gender, obviously; it just means that the words I used to use seem inadequate or inaccurate.
So, whatcha got?